How to fist a girl

But what do you do instead? Her advice? So the idea of a woman penetrating another woman with her hand is often lost on mainstream media all together. She also recommends as much communication as possible so you can know when your receiving partner is ready for more and when they want you to stop moving. Even if you wash your hands thoroughly, you want to make sure there are no abrasions from the nails or hangnails, explains Queen.

A lot of people hear the word 'fisting' and are immediately horrified. And we kind of can't blame them considering the majority of pornography depicting fisting is a teensy bit intimidating. If fisting either giving or receiving is something you're curious about though, please know it doesn't have to be as aggressive as you might see in porn - although if that's how you like it, it totally can be. Everyone, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity, can get pleasure from receiving and giving - and both the vagina and anus can be fisted if done safely. So to do it safely, you need to take it very slowly and, most importantly, use lots of lube.

We include products we think are useful for our readers. If you buy through links on this page, we may earn a small commission. We never hear about fisting in movies. We definitely never learn about it in sex ed.

Oftentimes, people get surprised when they hear me say that fisting can be one of the most intimate experiences with your partner. It takes preparation, a lot of communication, and even more lube. You rarely hear about women fisting other women.